Thank goodness it's Friday thankfuls:
Thankful Number One: Family! It's so exciting to see Mathias interacting with his aunt and cousins, even if it is just a hair tug here and a, "Oh, let me just chew on your fingers!" there. You can tell he delights in the attention (most the time), and even delights in watching the puppies give them attention.
Thankful Number Two: Quality baby food! Mathias seems to adore the organic
Happy Baby brand of food, which has some great flavor mixtures, including pear + mango + spinach, which was today's choice. We mostly feed him the popular Gerber foods, but he seems to enjoy the Happy Baby brand more, so we may start incorporating that into his diet more often. The fun containers are also a plus.
Thankful Number Three: Baby medicine; don't get me wrong, I'm pretty against medicating my baby and use it as a last resort, but sometimes I don't know what I'd do without baby Orajel. There was one day this week where Mathias cried for two hours straight, and nursing/bottlefeeding/bouncing/achangeofscenery wouldn't calm him down. He had no fever and a clean diaper, so I realized perhaps he's teething again. A bit of Orajel calmed him down enough to nurse, and then suddenly he was a happy baby again!
In Other News:
For all of those who keep asking, YES, I AM GOING BACK TO SCHOOL! I registered for three night classes this semester. Each class is three hours long and just one day a week; so, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday, I will spend all day home with Mathias, and then once Matt gets home, I'm on my way to class where I will remain from 5:30 to 8:20. I'm really excited, due to the fact that this is the longest I've ever been out of school since I started going 15+ years ago. That, and now all those concerned with me ruining my "potential" by taking more time off won't need to fret!
I do understand that everyone is concerned that having Mathias and having taken time off from school may have ruined my career prospects. These concerns have good intentions. However, I am no longer my priority; my son is. My husband is able to provide for us at this time, so if I need to delay my education to take adequate care of our son, I think it's in my family's best interest to do so. I'm trying to do a form of "attachment parenting", which requires that I be available almost constantly to meet the needs of my child. This means that even though daycare and babysitters are an excellent option, I would like to keep them at a minimum. Mathias is our son, and Matt and I will be the ones to raise him. I can't imagine a life where his daycare employees or babysitters spend more time with him than I do. I don't mean to bash those who send their children to daycare of have babysitters watch them regularly; I understand the decision and the intent. That is just not the right option for my family and my method of parenting.